
"The first step is to accept a child's right to say what he or she has to say, no matter how stupid or unreasonable. You don't have to listen to all of it, you can leave whenever you want, but you respect their right to say it. Then you say what you have to say, you stand your ground and are not blown away from by the inevitable response. This kind of parenting earns respect. It's the strength not to descend to teenagers' level of name-calling, when they would lose respect for you. It's the strength to walk away."
from "Get out of my Life, but first could you drive me and Cheryl to the mall?"
written by Anthony E. Wolf, Ph.D.
Took a little blog break...because of growing pains in our home.
I wish people would stop keeping secrets about how hard this parenting gig is. Just when you think you've got one area covered, wham, another hits you in the face. Stages that we are going through: my ten year old is dealing with bullies, and the soon to be teenager is in the thick of the "You hate me!" and "You're so mean!" stages. Hormones, both the boys and mine, are running rampant. There is something to be said about having children in your twenties...these sets of hormones should not meet. Just ask my husband.
But, I did accomplish something this week. I finally finished a pair of socks. Started way back in August...finished during an actual hockey game. It was therapy...so I didn't resort to "hockey mom mode."

Details can be found on Ravelry.
Hopefully you've all seen
Craft Hope. If not, click on over and see what
Sarah and crew have been up to. They have raised over 20K for Haiti. I'm just in awe!
I've been enjoying my
Derek James station on
Pandora. Check it out over the weekend. Sorta mellow, sorta not.
Have a great weekend everyone! I'm off to get the car ready for a skiing and hockey weekend